The
ideal of "a family" is one of the most basic models of what a better
world can be like. In a perfect family, the members are joined by bonds of love;
they help each other meet all of their physical and emotional needs. Of course
no family is perfect, but a family that strives together to become a "family
for a better world" can help each member to feel more fulfilled and better
about themselves and the world. They also provide a real-life example of how the
human family can work together to create a better world.
The first step to becoming a "Better World Family" is to decide to become
one. It will be an ongoing learning experience with lots of mistakes. You'll need
all of the tools you've learned as peacebuilders. You might decide to set a regular
time to discuss and work out family problems and issues. You'll want to make sure
that you show your concern and encouragement for each other, regularly. You'll
need to let things go and apologize and accept apologies and make amends when
apologies aren't enough. You're a team and you want to work it out. You may decide
to work together on projects for a better world as a way to strengthen your dedication.
In 1993,
the United Nations General Assembly decided that 15 May of every year should be
observed as the International Day of Families (resolution 47/237 of 20 September).
In 1989, by resolution 44/82, the Assembly had proclaimed 1994 the International
Year of the Family, to increase awareness of family issues and improve the capability
of nations to tackle family-related problems with comprehensive policies.
In
the United States, Family Day is also observed on September 26 by Presidential
Proclamation.